Loving someone is not sufficient

In today's fast pace of world, loving someone is not sufficient. You take your heart out, you cry out loud or you express your love by caring a person, is not enough. DONT have any expectations...no commitments. Just sway with the flow. No long lasting relationship..from soul to heart. What matters is the present. The moments you share with someone you love. The moments are not to be relived or remembered later ever.  The memories are beautiful but not to remember...memories don't last. Prefer having short lived memories. Live in moments...Live in present...no strings attached. It is rightly said the purest form of love is what a mom does to her child. There too is a disparity between a boy and a girl.